I love this man.

true.

They say boys are all equal , but after all , all girls feel the same.

‘Speak now or hold your peace’ the words said by preachers at the end of wedding ceremonies all over the world, right before the vows. It’s a last chance for protest, a moment that makes everyone’s heart race, and a moment I’ve always been strangely fascinated by. So many fantasize about bursting into a church, saying what they kept inside for years like in the movies. In real life , it rarely happens.

Real life is a funny thing , you know. In real life , saying the right thing at the right moment is beyond crucial. So crucial, in fact, that most of us start to hesitate for fear of saying the wrong time. But lately what I’ve begun to fear more than that is letting the moment pass without saying anything.

I think most of us fear reaching the end of our life , and looking back regretting the moments we didn’t speak up. When we didn’t say ‘I love you’. When we should’ve said ‘I’m sorry’. When we didn’t stand up for ourselves or someone who needed help. Words can break someone into a million pieces, but they can also put them back together. I hope you use yours for good, because the only words you’ll regret more than the ones left unsaid are the ones you use to intentionally hurt someone. What you say might be too much for some people. Maybe it will come out all wrong and you’ll stutter and you’ll walk away embarrassed, wincing as you play it all back in your head. But I think the words you stop yourself from saying are the ones that will haunt you the longest. So say it to them. Or say if to yourself in the mirror. Say it in a letter you’ll never send or in a book millions might read someday. I think you deserve to look back on your life without a chorus of resounding voices saying ‘I could’ve, but it’s too late now’ There is a time for silence. There is a time waiting your turn. But if you know how tou feel, and you clearly know what you need to say, you’ll know it.

I don’t think you should wait. I think you should speak now.

- Taylor Swift

lose yourself  in the music.

Have you ever been hated or discriminated against?
I have , I've been protested and demonstrated against.

you changed.

Berlin Wall *

ahah.

like they forgot about Dre.

M&M ♥

I JUST DON'T GIVE A FUCK !

Real talk , real life , good luck , good night , with a smile.
That's my home.

JM ♥

 

"Something really interesting happens when something that you love listening to gets very big and there are a lot of other people charring, a lot of people just wanna cheek out at that point and the fact that you guys are still hanging on and still feeling as vital and organic with this stuff as I do, that's the success story to me not anything that I've done. You are my success story , thank you."

(John Mayer - Where The Light Is)

Muitas vezes decepciona-mo-nos com um amigo, por não nos amar como queremos, por não agir da forma que gostaríamos, por não ter os mesmos pensamentos que os nossos! Perdi o sono muitas noites, ao começar a pensar nas minha atitudes anteriores. Quando verdadeiramente nos deparamos com aquilo de pior que existe dentro de nós, e nos sentimos incapazes de amar e ser amado é que podemos encontrar o verdadeiro sentido do amor. Mas diante de todas essas dores que o nosso inconsciente começa a gerar em nós, precisamos de aprender a amar na dor. É nessa hora que o verdadeiro amor pode ser demonstrado, quando não temos motivos para amar, quando as nossas dores superam qualquer alegria. Nesta minha vida percebi que a decepção sempre vai acontecer, com qualquer pessoa , em qualquer face da nossa vida. Mas as respostas que damos a essa tal desilusão tem que ser diferente a cada passo. Muitas vezes quando me decepcionava, entregava a raiva ao rancor de deixar de viver aquele momento. Hoje posso dizer que quero dar uma resposta diferente ás decepções, a partir de agora vou tentar sempre amar , por muito que magoe.